Comments on: How I know my girlfriend is The One I’m going to marry http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/ Become successful through sheer tenacity, drive, and working intelligently Fri, 12 Mar 2010 10:55:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: kurt lane http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-26342 kurt lane Sat, 30 Jan 2010 05:06:05 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-26342 i know that this girl bianca is the one cause every morning i only think of her and she says she always thinks of me and i tell her i love her all day but she says it more we kiss alot and we hug alot but im not certain that shes the one i need some help cause i really love this is the strongest feeling that i have ever had in love before this is the first time i have ever fell truly in love. i tell her everyting even my most deepest darkest secrets and she tells me hers her parents really like me but im not sure if shes the one i really hope she is cause i would takea bullet or a stab or uven a slow death anykind of death just for her to live i would use me last breath to tell het i love her is want to knowis she the one i know that this girl bianca is the one cause every morning i only think of her and she says she always thinks of me and i tell her i love her all day but she says it more we kiss alot and we hug alot but im not certain that shes the one i need some help cause i really love this is the strongest feeling that i have ever had in love before this is the first time i have ever fell truly in love. i tell her everyting even my most deepest darkest secrets and she tells me hers her parents really like me but im not sure if shes the one i really hope she is cause i would takea bullet or a stab or uven a slow death anykind of death just for her to live i would use me last breath to tell het i love her is want to knowis she the one

]]> By: This is it: 2010 is the make or break year | Become a young successful entrepreneur and live the startup life http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-25796 This is it: 2010 is the make or break year | Become a young successful entrepreneur and live the startup life Fri, 22 Jan 2010 01:41:24 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-25796 [...] A chance for love: Kim and I have never really tested our relationship.  For the past 2 years and a half, we have been inseparable and the crystal image of the perfect couple.  My move to SF away from Kim will test our ability to maintain a happy long distance relationship.  All my previous attempts have failed, but I’m confident that Kim and I will come out of this experience stronger than ever. [...] [...] A chance for love: Kim and I have never really tested our relationship.  For the past 2 years and a half, we have been inseparable and the crystal image of the perfect couple.  My move to SF away from Kim will test our ability to maintain a happy long distance relationship.  All my previous attempts have failed, but I’m confident that Kim and I will come out of this experience stronger than ever. [...]

]]> By: Peter http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-21939 Peter Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:40:15 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-21939 hey Jun, it's great to hear stories like this and very promising for all entrepreneurs like myself. I love how you really break things down. I just launched a unique dating site for book lovers and it went international already. Very excited but i still have a long way to go. Great blog Jun! Thanks Peter http://www.bookflirts.com online dating for book lovers. hey Jun,

it’s great to hear stories like this and very promising for all entrepreneurs like myself.

I love how you really break things down.

I just launched a unique dating site for book lovers and it went international already.
Very excited but i still have a long way to go.

Great blog Jun!

Thanks
Peter
http://www.bookflirts.com
online dating for book lovers.

]]> By: Peter http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-21937 Peter Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:34:21 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-21937 Hey Jun, This post is really great!! it really helps to balance out your life and not lose it all. Being an entrepreneur does take so much energy time and you have broken it down to its simple form. I just launched a unique dating site for book lovers and it went international already in 1 months. But i still have long way to go. Your voice has helped me thru the tough times. Thanks. Peter www.bookflirts.com online dating for book lovers. Hey Jun,

This post is really great!! it really helps to balance out your life and not lose it all.
Being an entrepreneur does take so much energy time and you have broken it down to its simple form.

I just launched a unique dating site for book lovers and it went international already in 1 months. But i still have long way to go. Your voice has helped me thru the tough times.

Thanks.

Peter
http://www.bookflirts.com
online dating for book lovers.

]]> By: Digs http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-21264 Digs Wed, 11 Nov 2009 02:15:31 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-21264 Wow, What a meaningful advice from alot of you. Am in kinda the same situation at the moment, though we only been dating for 4 months, things seem so right. Though itm has been 4 months of long distance, where its 2-3 weeks and i see her for 3-5 days at a time... Is she the one when you see her and it makes her day, you wake up thinking of her and why she isn't there with you, a simple call to hear about her day or little spontaneous romance to make her smile. Strangly never had a lady that fitted so perfectly and falling asleep in my arms, who seems to be at complete peace and falllen completely in love. The other weekend we spent 5 days in taupo staying at a hot water resort, amazing weekend it was. One of the days we went out for lunch and the waiter asked if we were on our honeymoon... to of which (if you ignore the inital shock) she jokingly played along and seemed completly fine with the idea. More so the talk got into kids, whether or not we would have a dog or a cat, and what life would be like if she lived with me.. Currently she lives 6 hours away from me, and she is looking for a job up in my town, is it the time to ask if she wants to move in or would i assume that she would get her own flat and we continue from there. -Digs Wow, What a meaningful advice from alot of you.
Am in kinda the same situation at the moment, though we only been dating for 4 months, things seem so right. Though itm has been 4 months of long distance, where its 2-3 weeks and i see her for 3-5 days at a time…
Is she the one when you see her and it makes her day, you wake up thinking of her and why she isn’t there with you, a simple call to hear about her day or little spontaneous romance to make her smile. Strangly never had a lady that fitted so perfectly and falling asleep in my arms, who seems to be at complete peace and falllen completely in love.

The other weekend we spent 5 days in taupo staying at a hot water resort, amazing weekend it was. One of the days we went out for lunch and the waiter asked if we were on our honeymoon… to of which (if you ignore the inital shock) she jokingly played along and seemed completly fine with the idea. More so the talk got into kids, whether or not we would have a dog or a cat, and what life would be like if she lived with me..
Currently she lives 6 hours away from me, and she is looking for a job up in my town, is it the time to ask if she wants to move in or would i assume that she would get her own flat and we continue from there.

-Digs

]]> By: Uyen http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-16940 Uyen Mon, 14 Sep 2009 08:47:20 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-16940 Jun, I am utterly blown away by you. haha.... so i was bored and saw you online but you know it's that awkward feeling you get when you want to say hi but you haven't really spoken to the other person for such a long time it feels a bit weird? and now i feel all stalker-ish because i'm sitting here reading about your personal life in some blog you wrote a year ago. i didn't realize how crazy this whole start up thing has been for you. but... i want say hello and tell you that this article really struck a chord with me. kind of hit home... a little. i feel like you just smacked me with a brick common sense. anyway, congratulations. we need to keep in touch, homie. Jun, I am utterly blown away by you. haha…. so i was bored and saw you online but you know it’s that awkward feeling you get when you want to say hi but you haven’t really spoken to the other person for such a long time it feels a bit weird? and now i feel all stalker-ish because i’m sitting here reading about your personal life in some blog you wrote a year ago.

i didn’t realize how crazy this whole start up thing has been for you. but… i want say hello and tell you that this article really struck a chord with me. kind of hit home… a little. i feel like you just smacked me with a brick common sense. anyway, congratulations. we need to keep in touch, homie.

]]> By: rogerthat http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-15508 rogerthat Thu, 20 Aug 2009 05:42:26 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-15508 Hey jun, like your comments about how to find if the girlfriend is the one. Right now , i have a girlfriend who i think might be the one. Only problem is sometimes I cant understand her..seems like she's a bit on the immature side or i am just too dense which makes me think twice of her being the one. Im 25, she's 23... I dont know how to make our relationship a stable one if we keep on getting arguments suddenly...I know she loves me so much as i learned from her friends privately., but she's just too idealistic? Or the retarded punchline "Gals are like that" always seems to be her favorite line .... Can we talk over email over this? thank you Hey jun,

like your comments about how to find if the girlfriend is the one. Right now , i have a girlfriend who i think might be the one. Only problem is sometimes I cant understand her..seems like she’s a bit on the immature side or i am just too dense which makes me think twice of her being the one. Im 25, she’s 23… I dont know how to make our relationship a stable one if we keep on getting arguments suddenly…I know she loves me so much as i learned from her friends privately., but she’s just too idealistic? Or the retarded punchline “Gals are like that” always seems to be her favorite line ….

Can we talk over email over this?

thank you

]]> By: Jon J http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-11594 Jon J Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:04:47 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-11594 That's awesome, You both sound like you keep busy and don't try to rely on one another (though that brings you closer when you each realize that the other is "doing", "giving" their all to simply "give it" not expecting anything in return....picture two dancers each "giving" to the point where it's look so seamless, one is not trying to look better than the other etc. ;-) Keep up the amazing posts. I'm really knew to blogs etc. Thank you for your response. I can tell you really know your etiquette. Viralogy looks pretty interesting. Good luck with that ;-) -j That’s awesome,

You both sound like you keep busy and don’t try to rely on one another (though that brings you closer when you each realize that the other is “doing”, “giving” their all to simply “give it” not expecting anything in return….picture two dancers each “giving” to the point where it’s look so seamless, one is not trying to look better than the other etc. ;-)

Keep up the amazing posts. I’m really knew to blogs etc. Thank you for your response. I can tell you really know your etiquette.

Viralogy looks pretty interesting. Good luck with that ;-)

-j

]]> By: JunLoayza http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-11584 JunLoayza Wed, 10 Jun 2009 17:44:56 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-11584 j, Thank you so much for the meaningful comment. I can tell you put a lot of yourself into it so I read every single word and let it all sink in. I'm 23 (turning 24 in a couple of months) and she's 24. She just got promoted and is an Assistant Manager at Free People. I just launched Viralogy.com 3 weeks ago and am hoping make it a huge success. Though we're not THERE yet, we're definitely on track to becoming very successful and happy people. You 5 points make perfect sense. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge and passion and I hope to chat with you soon. - Jun j,

Thank you so much for the meaningful comment. I can tell you put a lot of yourself into it so I read every single word and let it all sink in.

I’m 23 (turning 24 in a couple of months) and she’s 24. She just got promoted and is an Assistant Manager at Free People. I just launched Viralogy.com 3 weeks ago and am hoping make it a huge success. Though we’re not THERE yet, we’re definitely on track to becoming very successful and happy people.

You 5 points make perfect sense. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge and passion and I hope to chat with you soon.

- Jun

]]> By: Jon J http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/how-i-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-one-im-going-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-11583 Jon J Wed, 10 Jun 2009 17:21:30 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=832#comment-11583 Hi Jun, Thank you for posting this. You def seem like you know where you want to go with your relationship with this girl. And it seems like you're taking your time and not rushing or jumping into things (as Passion and emotions usually lead the young at heart to do). Didn't really catch how old you are or where you're at in your life (goals etc.). All I'd like to say is to use it all to your advantage. If there's a girl you're with right now who's mad cool enjoy every minute of it. And the big word (when ever in a relationships/marriage) is COMPROMISE. I'm in my mid twenties and can never see myself getting married. I enjoy talking to and hanging out with multiple girls (which is not easy to do by any means, I'm still learning each step of the way...some girls get really jealous, others are really cool with it...you never know ;-)....but that's just me. I find that when I start judging people for that: whether they like relationships with only one girl or with tons of different girls that it only breeds negative energy and comes from a place of Insecurity within the culprit. Having read alot about this, if I do choose to marry, it will be in my thirties. From your post I got that you did find a girl who's: Smart, sexy, and very very emotionally healthy....and she has a high self esteem (it sounds healthy at least). Congratulations as you seem like a fellow who does not tolerate second rate behavior from anyone (especially the women you choose to have in your world). My interpretation of that to all the fellows out there struggling with relationships is to: 1. Know what is that you want in a Man/woman you hope to start a relationship with Good self esteem, well groomed, respects their body i.e they eat healthy exercise etc.... 2. Never settle for less If a girl/guy you're with doesn't respect you, holds out on sex to control you etc...then why are you putting up with that? 3. Never judge or expect anything from your partner Too many head games go on in relationships. To me this has to do with one word: Jealousy. 4. Always realize that the only person you can Change is YOU. So when an issue arises with a girl/guy that makes you feel fear, or anger realize that you must take full responsibility and not take the attitude of "Why is this happening to me." You have everything built inside of you already to make the changes towards a happier healthier way of life ;-) 5. Hang out with Positive High Energy people People you'd want to be like or people who make you feel good. I'm not talking about people who kiss your ass or don't give you tough love. I'm talking about people who understand respect and authenticity and honesty etc. Apologies for the rant. Thank you again for the great post. I enjoyed reading it ;-) -j Hi Jun,

Thank you for posting this. You def seem like you know where you want to go with your relationship with this girl. And it seems like you’re taking your time and not rushing or jumping into things (as Passion and emotions usually lead the young at heart to do).

Didn’t really catch how old you are or where you’re at in your life (goals etc.). All I’d like to say is to use it all to your advantage. If there’s a girl you’re with right now who’s mad cool enjoy every minute of it. And the big word (when ever in a relationships/marriage) is COMPROMISE.

I’m in my mid twenties and can never see myself getting married. I enjoy talking to and hanging out with multiple girls (which is not easy to do by any means, I’m still learning each step of the way…some girls get really jealous, others are really cool with it…you never know ;-)….but that’s just me.

I find that when I start judging people for that: whether they like relationships with only one girl or with tons of different girls that it only breeds negative energy and comes from a place of Insecurity within the culprit.

Having read alot about this, if I do choose to marry, it will be in my thirties.

From your post I got that you did find a girl who’s: Smart, sexy, and very very emotionally healthy….and she has a high self esteem (it sounds healthy at least). Congratulations as you seem like a fellow who does not tolerate second rate behavior from anyone (especially the women you choose to have in your world).

My interpretation of that to all the fellows out there struggling with relationships is to:

1. Know what is that you want in a Man/woman you hope to start a relationship with

Good self esteem, well groomed, respects their body i.e they eat healthy exercise etc….

2. Never settle for less

If a girl/guy you’re with doesn’t respect you, holds out on sex to control you etc…then why are you putting up with that?

3. Never judge or expect anything from your partner

Too many head games go on in relationships. To me this has to do with one word: Jealousy.

4. Always realize that the only person you can Change is YOU. So when an issue arises with a girl/guy that makes you feel fear, or anger realize that you must take full responsibility and not take the attitude of “Why is this happening to me.”

You have everything built inside of you already to make the changes towards a happier healthier way of life ;-)

5. Hang out with Positive High Energy people

People you’d want to be like or people who make you feel good. I’m not talking about people who kiss your ass or don’t give you tough love. I’m talking about people who understand respect and authenticity and honesty etc.

Apologies for the rant. Thank you again for the great post. I enjoyed reading it ;-)

-j

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