Comments on: A necessary empty feeling http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/ Become successful through sheer tenacity, drive, and working intelligently Wed, 08 Feb 2012 16:58:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Jun Loayza http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30573 Jun Loayza Fri, 16 Apr 2010 06:11:46 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30573 That's a super crucial time to decide to go out on your own. What made you do it 1 week before the wedding? What are you working on right now? That’s a super crucial time to decide to go out on your own. What made you do it 1 week before the wedding?

What are you working on right now?

]]> By: Ryan Knapp http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30572 Ryan Knapp Fri, 16 Apr 2010 05:59:18 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30572 It's great to see your take on this whole thing Jun. I decided to take a plunge on doing this 'on your own' stuff 1 week before my wedding last October. My wife said to be 1 week ago 'Was our first 6 months of being married supposed to be like this?' Like this is working over 60 hours a week, rarely stopping to do anything besides work, work, work. And it shouldn't be like that. I'm not sure that there ever is a good time to be married/with a gf and to run your own business. It's not that my wife doesn't support me, it's just that she sees the business as not spending time with her, and who could blame her. It's something that evolves over time, but when you take that step, just be ready for what the future holds. It’s great to see your take on this whole thing Jun. I decided to take a plunge on doing this ‘on your own’ stuff 1 week before my wedding last October.

My wife said to be 1 week ago ‘Was our first 6 months of being married supposed to be like this?’

Like this is working over 60 hours a week, rarely stopping to do anything besides work, work, work. And it shouldn’t be like that.

I’m not sure that there ever is a good time to be married/with a gf and to run your own business. It’s not that my wife doesn’t support me, it’s just that she sees the business as not spending time with her, and who could blame her.

It’s something that evolves over time, but when you take that step, just be ready for what the future holds.

]]> By: Jun Loayza http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30563 Jun Loayza Thu, 15 Apr 2010 22:53:31 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30563 Hahaha... you can come over any time ;) Kim is actually thinking of going to NYC for her career! Yikes!!! Hahaha… you can come over any time ;)

Kim is actually thinking of going to NYC for her career!

Yikes!!!

]]> By: Jun Loayza http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30562 Jun Loayza Thu, 15 Apr 2010 22:50:22 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30562 Cameron, keep working hard bro. I commend you for working so hard to live a happy life together, and always remember that it just doesn't have to be a big pay off at the end. Enjoy the process and the path to your big success with her, and make her as much a part of your startup as she wants to be. You'll be surprised, come loves to be a part of my startup; well, to the extent that I tell her everything that is going on and I sometimes ask her for advice :) Cameron, keep working hard bro. I commend you for working so hard to live a happy life together, and always remember that it just doesn’t have to be a big pay off at the end. Enjoy the process and the path to your big success with her, and make her as much a part of your startup as she wants to be.

You’ll be surprised, come loves to be a part of my startup; well, to the extent that I tell her everything that is going on and I sometimes ask her for advice :)

]]> By: Jun Loayza http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30561 Jun Loayza Thu, 15 Apr 2010 22:48:43 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30561 Thanks Vincent. She is very beautiful :) Thanks Vincent.

She is very beautiful :)

]]> By: Samurai http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30557 Samurai Thu, 15 Apr 2010 21:42:17 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30557 Yo Jun, I'll be your other half if you want, and if I can get a hall pass to be let out of the house :) You're right... the time apart makes the time together THAT MUCH BETTER! Thank goodness u guys are in the same time zone and state. Imagine if she was in NYC, or in a foreign country. Strive on buddy! Sam Yo Jun, I’ll be your other half if you want, and if I can get a hall pass to be let out of the house :)

You’re right… the time apart makes the time together THAT MUCH BETTER! Thank goodness u guys are in the same time zone and state. Imagine if she was in NYC, or in a foreign country.

Strive on buddy!

Sam

]]> By: Cameron Plommer http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30508 Cameron Plommer Wed, 14 Apr 2010 16:40:41 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30508 I'm not an entrepreneurs and I don't have a startup, but what you are talking about applies to my situation and a lot of others I'd bet. As a college graduate trying to settle in to a new job, volunteer my time at NGO's and nonprofits, and trying to blog consistently I am having difficulties balancing those things with my girlfriend and friends. It's hard to make your significant other understand that the reason you work so hard is to make as many opportunities as you possible can. And I'm doing all this stuff for "us" in the end. I'm so balls out about this stuff because I want to have a secure, balanced, and happy life TOGETHER. I actually had a talk last night with my gf about this very topic. It lifted a great weight off my shoulders. Before she thought I was just being selfish, but she now believes that these things I do set me up for more opportunities in the future and make me happy/fulfilled. I love your blog because of posts like these. Thanks Jun I’m not an entrepreneurs and I don’t have a startup, but what you are talking about applies to my situation and a lot of others I’d bet.

As a college graduate trying to settle in to a new job, volunteer my time at NGO’s and nonprofits, and trying to blog consistently I am having difficulties balancing those things with my girlfriend and friends.

It’s hard to make your significant other understand that the reason you work so hard is to make as many opportunities as you possible can. And I’m doing all this stuff for “us” in the end. I’m so balls out about this stuff because I want to have a secure, balanced, and happy life TOGETHER.

I actually had a talk last night with my gf about this very topic. It lifted a great weight off my shoulders. Before she thought I was just being selfish, but she now believes that these things I do set me up for more opportunities in the future and make me happy/fulfilled.

I love your blog because of posts like these. Thanks Jun

]]> By: Vincent http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30480 Vincent Wed, 14 Apr 2010 03:25:54 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30480 Glad to hear that your company have made progress these days, and you can still keep the balance between relationship and startup. I don't have much experience on relationship, but it is a nice thing seeing you and your beautiful girlfriend going stronger. Glad to hear that your company have made progress these days, and you can still keep the balance between relationship and startup.

I don’t have much experience on relationship, but it is a nice thing seeing you and your beautiful girlfriend going stronger.

]]> By: JunLoayza http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30468 JunLoayza Tue, 13 Apr 2010 21:38:47 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30468 You're so sweet Jenny :) So Kim is coming back up the end of May. Lets all hang out again soon! You’re so sweet Jenny :)

So Kim is coming back up the end of May. Lets all hang out again soon!

]]> By: JunLoayza http://www.junloayza.com/relationships-and-sex/a-necessary-empty-feeling/comment-page-1/#comment-30467 JunLoayza Tue, 13 Apr 2010 21:33:49 +0000 http://www.junloayza.com/?p=1202#comment-30467 Wow, long distance and both on startups... sounds like it was very difficult. I know what you mean. It's hard not having Kim here with me, and I try to visit her at least once a month. I'm actually flying her up in the end of May! My very very close friend recently broke up with his girlfriend because of the long distance. Kim and I are going strong, and I'm confident that we're going to just come out stronger because of this. When are you going to be in Northern California? Hit me up when you're here :) Wow, long distance and both on startups… sounds like it was very difficult.

I know what you mean. It’s hard not having Kim here with me, and I try to visit her at least once a month. I’m actually flying her up in the end of May!

My very very close friend recently broke up with his girlfriend because of the long distance. Kim and I are going strong, and I’m confident that we’re going to just come out stronger because of this.

When are you going to be in Northern California? Hit me up when you’re here :)

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