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	<title>Comments on: How Ramit Sethi and Tim Ferris shifted my paradigm</title>
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		<title>By: Everything is Relative and Why You Should Ignore Everyone Else: Part One &#124; How To Be Extraordinary</title>
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		<dc:creator>Everything is Relative and Why You Should Ignore Everyone Else: Part One &#124; How To Be Extraordinary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 23:29:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Jun Loayza has written about this feeling as well.  After listening to a uStream of Ramit Sethi and Tim Ferriss Jun realized this: &#8220;I am not in a foot race against the Tims and the Ramits. That was it.  That simple shift in mentality instantly soothed my stress away and allowed me to relax and reevaluate my life.  Before 8pm tonight, I was constantly comparing myself to everyone around me.  Before tonight, I felt I needed to publish a book by 25 and get my girlfriend a Black American Express by 30.  But now I know that I’m not in a foot race against anyone.  This is my life, and I need to take my time and enjoy it.&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Jun Loayza has written about this feeling as well.  After listening to a uStream of Ramit Sethi and Tim Ferriss Jun realized this: &#8220;I am not in a foot race against the Tims and the Ramits. That was it.  That simple shift in mentality instantly soothed my stress away and allowed me to relax and reevaluate my life.  Before 8pm tonight, I was constantly comparing myself to everyone around me.  Before tonight, I felt I needed to publish a book by 25 and get my girlfriend a Black American Express by 30.  But now I know that I’m not in a foot race against anyone.  This is my life, and I need to take my time and enjoy it.&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Everything is Relative and Why You Should Ignore Everyone Else &#124; Econ Apps by Cameron Plommer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Everything is Relative and Why You Should Ignore Everyone Else &#124; Econ Apps by Cameron Plommer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 17:03:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Jun Loayza has written about this feeling as well.  After listening to a uStream of Ramit Sethi and Tim Ferriss Jun realized this: &#8220;I am not in a foot race against the Tims and the Ramits. That was it.  That simple shift in mentality instantly soothed my stress away and allowed me to relax and reevaluate my life.  Before 8pm tonight, I was constantly comparing myself to everyone around me.  Before tonight, I felt I needed to publish a book by 25 and get my girlfriend a Black American Express by 30.  But now I know that I’m not in a foot race against anyone.  This is my life, and I need to take my time and enjoy it.&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Jun Loayza has written about this feeling as well.  After listening to a uStream of Ramit Sethi and Tim Ferriss Jun realized this: &#8220;I am not in a foot race against the Tims and the Ramits. That was it.  That simple shift in mentality instantly soothed my stress away and allowed me to relax and reevaluate my life.  Before 8pm tonight, I was constantly comparing myself to everyone around me.  Before tonight, I felt I needed to publish a book by 25 and get my girlfriend a Black American Express by 30.  But now I know that I’m not in a foot race against anyone.  This is my life, and I need to take my time and enjoy it.&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: How NOT Getting the Job was the Best Thing that Could have Happened &#124; Personal Branding Blog - Dan Schawbel</title>
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		<dc:creator>How NOT Getting the Job was the Best Thing that Could have Happened &#124; Personal Branding Blog - Dan Schawbel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 12:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] For about 6 hours that day I felt horrible, useless, and like an utter failure.  With no hope in sight, I decided to bask in my failure and feel sorry for myself.  And then suddenly, as if it were meant to be, I remembered that Tim Ferriss and Ramit Sethi had a live webcast that night, so I decided to get up, sit by my laptop, and feel sorry for myself while watching Tim and Ramit (at least somewhat productive).  The session was nothing less than a paradigm shift. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] For about 6 hours that day I felt horrible, useless, and like an utter failure.  With no hope in sight, I decided to bask in my failure and feel sorry for myself.  And then suddenly, as if it were meant to be, I remembered that Tim Ferriss and Ramit Sethi had a live webcast that night, so I decided to get up, sit by my laptop, and feel sorry for myself while watching Tim and Ramit (at least somewhat productive).  The session was nothing less than a paradigm shift. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: How to get an interview for a position you're under qualified for &#124; Become a young successful entrepreneur and live the startup life</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to get an interview for a position you're under qualified for &#124; Become a young successful entrepreneur and live the startup life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 12:01:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] That&#8217;s right, I said it.  Job &#8220;Requirements&#8221; don&#8217;t mean squat.  They&#8217;re just there to weed out the weak and let the strong stand out.  This is how I punched requirements in the face and got an interview for a position I was under qualified for. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] That&#8217;s right, I said it.  Job &#8220;Requirements&#8221; don&#8217;t mean squat.  They&#8217;re just there to weed out the weak and let the strong stand out.  This is how I punched requirements in the face and got an interview for a position I was under qualified for. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Goddess Leonie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Goddess Leonie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2009 03:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jun,

I found your blog through your Ustream interview with Jonathan Mead the other day, and I'm so glad you did. Thank you for your honesty, authenticity and integrity in sharing about your journey.

And I was just thinking today how sometimes a "No" can be a "Yes" in another direction.

Have a great day!
Goddess Leonie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jun,</p>
<p>I found your blog through your Ustream interview with Jonathan Mead the other day, and I&#8217;m so glad you did. Thank you for your honesty, authenticity and integrity in sharing about your journey.</p>
<p>And I was just thinking today how sometimes a &#8220;No&#8221; can be a &#8220;Yes&#8221; in another direction.</p>
<p>Have a great day!<br />
Goddess Leonie</p>
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		<title>By: Olina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Olina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jun,

Just saw this article today, and I am touched by your way of thinking, so does the three months goal. it definetly shows your passion about your career and your life, further more, your care about people around you. 

Lots of times, life doesn't give us what we expected. But we just need to try harder and harder, eventually, that door of sucessus will open for us. Keep up the good job and don't forget that we are WORKING TOGETHER towards our dream! 

I am always here support you! :)

Olina.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jun,</p>
<p>Just saw this article today, and I am touched by your way of thinking, so does the three months goal. it definetly shows your passion about your career and your life, further more, your care about people around you. </p>
<p>Lots of times, life doesn&#8217;t give us what we expected. But we just need to try harder and harder, eventually, that door of sucessus will open for us. Keep up the good job and don&#8217;t forget that we are WORKING TOGETHER towards our dream! </p>
<p>I am always here support you! <img src='http://www.junloayza.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Olina.</p>
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		<title>By: JunLoayza</title>
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		<dc:creator>JunLoayza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much Rikin.  I am very happy to have gained your respect.

In an age where everyone is "teaching" everyone about something, I think adding personality and honesty is what makes a post stand out.  

I might not making an entire post about surfing and movie watching (actually i might if I can make it either very entertaining or super valuable), but I'll definitely be Tweeting it out.  

Just started following you on Twitter and am looking forward to staying connected.  Lets set up a time to chat next week or in 2.  I'm booked but it would be great to have you on http://Awesome.Viralogy.com

ttys</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much Rikin.  I am very happy to have gained your respect.</p>
<p>In an age where everyone is &#8220;teaching&#8221; everyone about something, I think adding personality and honesty is what makes a post stand out.  </p>
<p>I might not making an entire post about surfing and movie watching (actually i might if I can make it either very entertaining or super valuable), but I&#8217;ll definitely be Tweeting it out.  </p>
<p>Just started following you on Twitter and am looking forward to staying connected.  Lets set up a time to chat next week or in 2.  I&#8217;m booked but it would be great to have you on <a href="http://Awesome.Viralogy.com" rel="nofollow">http://Awesome.Viralogy.com</a></p>
<p>ttys</p>
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		<title>By: Rikin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rikin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jun - Sorry to hear about the rejection but because of it I gained respect for you.

There's lots of copycat-ing going on in this crowd. I've been a member of brazen and 20somethings and follow and talk to alot of the same people you do. I appreciate and admire everyone for what they're doing but I don't want to be like them. I don't want to just say, talk about, or do something because they are. It's a quick road to gaining followers and exposure but it's crowded and makes me feel kinda icky all over. I enjoy work life balance conversations but at one point you just have to DO things. There are too many people giving me advice and when you truly look at their cred and experience it's not worth it - no one's answers apply to everyone yet they're often expressed as if they were universal law. And there's the topic of faith and social media. I'm an atheist who doesn't want to offend anyone - I'll stay quiet. This happens over and over again. One topic - everyone puts their two cents in and then on to the next. No one's a leader all the time and everyone's following. Everyone's trying to be a role model but really we just want people to relate to.

I look forward to hearing about your days surfing, what movies you watched that inspired you, how to maintain sanity while trying be successful, and how to keep up healthy relationships when you're flat out tired and broke. I'll still follow this blog and probably will follow it more. 

Also I should apologize. After my last comment you kindly asked if I'd consider a video chat and I was hesitant because of all the above reasons and didn't respond. After reading this post I'd be happy to sit down with you and chat about growing up in a crappy economy where it's tough to find jobs and your competition is a guy who has a decade of experience on you willing to take a pay cut cause he was recently fired. rikin on the web at gmail dot com. or twitter - rikin311

Truly GREAT POST and best of luck. 

Rikin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jun - Sorry to hear about the rejection but because of it I gained respect for you.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s lots of copycat-ing going on in this crowd. I&#8217;ve been a member of brazen and 20somethings and follow and talk to alot of the same people you do. I appreciate and admire everyone for what they&#8217;re doing but I don&#8217;t want to be like them. I don&#8217;t want to just say, talk about, or do something because they are. It&#8217;s a quick road to gaining followers and exposure but it&#8217;s crowded and makes me feel kinda icky all over. I enjoy work life balance conversations but at one point you just have to DO things. There are too many people giving me advice and when you truly look at their cred and experience it&#8217;s not worth it - no one&#8217;s answers apply to everyone yet they&#8217;re often expressed as if they were universal law. And there&#8217;s the topic of faith and social media. I&#8217;m an atheist who doesn&#8217;t want to offend anyone - I&#8217;ll stay quiet. This happens over and over again. One topic - everyone puts their two cents in and then on to the next. No one&#8217;s a leader all the time and everyone&#8217;s following. Everyone&#8217;s trying to be a role model but really we just want people to relate to.</p>
<p>I look forward to hearing about your days surfing, what movies you watched that inspired you, how to maintain sanity while trying be successful, and how to keep up healthy relationships when you&#8217;re flat out tired and broke. I&#8217;ll still follow this blog and probably will follow it more. </p>
<p>Also I should apologize. After my last comment you kindly asked if I&#8217;d consider a video chat and I was hesitant because of all the above reasons and didn&#8217;t respond. After reading this post I&#8217;d be happy to sit down with you and chat about growing up in a crappy economy where it&#8217;s tough to find jobs and your competition is a guy who has a decade of experience on you willing to take a pay cut cause he was recently fired. rikin on the web at gmail dot com. or twitter - rikin311</p>
<p>Truly GREAT POST and best of luck. </p>
<p>Rikin</p>
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		<title>By: JunLoayza</title>
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		<dc:creator>JunLoayza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 18:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Look forward to chatting with you tomorrow.  I'll get her on soon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look forward to chatting with you tomorrow.  I&#8217;ll get her on soon.</p>
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		<title>By: Nick Tasler</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nick Tasler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 17:52:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes friends and family outweigh other "lifestyle" considerations and preferences. SoCal will always have a special place in my heart, but being close to family and old friends counts for a lot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes friends and family outweigh other &#8220;lifestyle&#8221; considerations and preferences. SoCal will always have a special place in my heart, but being close to family and old friends counts for a lot.</p>
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